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Step-family

Posted 6 Months ago by chiarizio

If you’re a guy (call you EGO), and you have a stepdaughter (call her ALTERette), and she has a stepmother ( call her ALTERa), how is that last-mentioned woman related to you?
(“Asking for a friend.” ;-) )

Ordinarily ALTERette would become my stepdaughter because I married her (ie ALTERette’s) mother.
But ALTERa would become ALTERette’s stepmother because she (ie ALTERa) married ALTERette’s father.
So ALTERa couldn’t be ALTERette’s mother, and therefore couldn’t be my wife.

So there are some stepfamily porn videos for which “my friend” just can’t suspend disbelief.

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In (nearly?) every state in the United States, sexual activity between stepchild and stepparent is prohibited. Also, in (most?) states, marriage between stepchild and stepparent is prohibited. In some states it’s because it’s considered as incestuous as if it were between an adopted parent and an adopted child; in others it’s because there is a presumed power-imbalance that makes the stepchild unable to give effective consent.

However, in (nearly?) every state, there is no legal prohibition against sex or marriage between stepsiblings. Not even in states (which are most of them?) which prohibit sex and/or marriage between adopted siblings.
Sex between stepsiblings can be considered a very bad idea, depending on circumstances, but, unless there’s some other reason, it’s legal.
Something, perhaps, for counselors and therapists, but not for police and courts.

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How is it in other jurisdictions?
Does it seem to depend on the historically-dominant religion of the country?

….

If you hear or read about a pornographic movie or manga in which the fantasy would, if true, make the activities shown disgusting to you, would that mean you couldn’t enjoy watching it?
For instance, maybe you can’t watch “coerced” sex (in which the actors pretend one of them coerces the other)?
Would that extend to not being able to watch a stepfather/stepdaughter nor a stepmother/stepson fantasy?
Nor read a manga about such a relationship?

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If you’re a guy (call you EGO), and you have a stepdaughter (call her ALTERette), and she has a stepmother ( call her ALTERa), how is that last-mentioned woman related to you?


My stepfather's culture assumes there's all kinds of strange relationships and instead of trying to figure them out, just uses the words "aunt" and "uncle" for people who are a generation above you and related to you in some way.

However, in (nearly?) every state, there is no legal prohibition against sex or marriage between stepsiblings. Not even in states (which are most of them?) which prohibit sex and/or marriage between adopted siblings


So, this was actually relevant with my best friend irl (who I've mentioned in these posts before). At one point he was dating his step-sibling kinda secretly and his step-father wanted to adopt him and he had to say no without saying why -- because it would have made their relationship literally illegal.

Sex between stepsiblings can be considered a very bad idea, depending on circumstances


Like if they grow up together, yeah that makes sense. However in my friend's case his mother and step-father married when he and the step-sister were both adults, and weren't even together until they were both almost adults. So it makes sense that whatever attracted the mother to the step-father would attract my friend to the step-sister and since it was a few years before they married there was time for something to happen before the taboos started taking over.

6 Months ago
Xhin
Sky's the limit

@Xhin:
You wrote:
So, this was actually relevant with my best friend irl (who I've mentioned in these posts before). At one point he was dating his step-sibling kinda secretly and his step-father wanted to adopt him and he had to say no without saying why -- because it would have made their relationship literally illegal.


That’s interesting!

6 Months ago
chiarizio
 

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